When a player is eliminated from a game (by becoming a Lost Player
or by running out of cities), you can remove them from the game
using the Remailer like this:

*************** Instructions for Deleting a Player ************************
(1) Before deleting a player, send a query message to explain what you're
    about to do, and why.
(2) Go to http://www.pixgen.com/elam/warlords/Edit.cgi (Remailer Edit page)
(3) Select the game and password as usual.
(4) If the current turn is set to the player you want to delete, you will
    need to change that.
(5) From the Control Panel, pick "Delete Player".
(6) Select the player(s) to be deleted.
(7) Submit the information.

Note:  If a player is eliminated in battle, they may still want to receive
the rest of the game email to see how the game turns out.  In this case,
you can add their email address to the list of Moderator addresses.
Eliminated players do not become moderators this way, and since they
are out of the game they may not send diplomatic messages, but they may 
still send rules queries and noarchive comments.